Terms of Association

Last updated: October 2026

Who we are

Lead Stronger Longer is a private membership association. We stand on Natural Law and one simple standard: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

How membership works

You're welcome to read and explore this site freely. Browsing alone does not make you a member.

You become a member when you choose to engage. That means booking a speaking engagement, entering a consulting partnership, enrolling in a program, or joining a private community. By engaging, you agree to these terms. Membership is by mutual consent, and either of us may end it.

What I expect, and what you can expect from me

I expect you to act with honesty, respect, and good will. You can expect the same from me.

We keep our word. We speak plainly. We treat each other as people of honor.

What I offer

Education, speaking, and guidance for leaders. Tools, frameworks, and experience from 36 years of practice.

I am not your doctor, lawyer, accountant, or therapist. Nothing I share replaces their counsel. You remain the authority over your own life, your health, and your decisions. Before changing anything with your body or your health, check with the professionals you trust.

Your part

You choose what to use. You choose how to act. Your results depend on the work you do. I'll give you everything I've got, and I can't promise a specific outcome. No honest guide can.

My work stays mine

The talks, writing, videos, and methods on this site, including Stay S.A.N.E.™, P.I.L.O.T.®, and Yogilachi®, are my life's work.

Use them for yourself. Share them with credit and a link back here. Please don't copy, sell, or teach them as your own without asking me first. If you'd like to use them with your team or organization, reach out. I'm open to the conversation.

Respect in our community

Our spaces are for growth, honesty, and kindness. If anyone causes harm to another member, I may end their membership.

Speaking and consulting

Every speaking engagement and consulting partnership has its own written agreement. That agreement covers dates, compensation, travel, cancellation, and refunds. Where it says something specific, it guides us.

Other websites

Links to other sites are offered as a courtesy. Those sites are theirs, not mine.

If we disagree

Come to me first. Directly. Privately. In good faith.

Most things resolve with one honest conversation. If we can't settle it ourselves, we'll ask a fair, mutually chosen mediator to help us reach a resolution that's right for both of us.

If this changes

If I update these terms, the new date will show at the top of this page.

Talk to me

Stephana Oetinger · Lead Stronger Longer [email protected] · 360-210-2204 Lake Jackson, Texas